How To Stop A Breakup -
The 5 Simple Steps To Saving Your Relationship
by George Karanastasis, M.D.
People break up every day. It’s a fact of life. But
here’s another fact… in the majority of cases these
relationships can be saved (and it’s much easier than
you’d imagine). All that’s required is a strong desire
to do so, a healthy dose of patience, and a plan that’s
easy to follow and even easier to stick to. The purpose
of this post is to give you a simple, yet highly
effective 5-step strategy on how to stop your breakup so
you can turn a fading relationship into a stronger,
happier, and everlasting one.
first of these five steps is to identify your faults in
the relationship. In other words, what specific actions
(or inactions) are you personally responsible for that
drove it downhill? And while one person is never
entirely to blame for causing a breakup, there are sure
to be some things that you could hold yourself fully
second step is to create a plan of action to correct
those faults immediately. Every second counts
when you’re trying to stop a breakup because you never
know when the “bomb is going to drop”. And it’s much
easier to save a relationship than to start over
third step is to take those faults and write them down
on a piece of paper. Next, you should write a short
description of how you’ll go about correcting them. Keep
this brief and to the point and above all, maintain
clarity (you’ll see why in the next step).
fourth step is to take this paper that has now become a
written plan and present it to your girlfriend (or
wife). Make sure you do this in person. Find a time when
she’s most receptive to hearing what you have to say and
meet her to make your intentions known to her.
fifth and final step is to act on your plan
immediately… and stick to it! Again, every second
counts when trying to avoid this breakup but from the
moment you present your plan it counts that much more.
Why? Because by presenting your “case” you’re making her
a promise. And if you fail to follow through on this
promise the breakup will be just around the corner.
are the five simple steps that form an overall strategy
on how to stop a breakup. But don’t be fooled by their
simplicity. Because when properly executed they form the
foundation that holds all successful relationship
together: a promise and the actions that follow through
on that promise.
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